Self-Empowerment: the right of decision, the right of participation - the responsiblity of participation - prefering to blame others so I can do what I want rather than stand up and put my neck out to possibly have my head chopped off. Ruling the inner monarchy. Checking in with myself on my agendas, my desires, my personal egoic wants for attention in the moment to be disruptive in the group - to be adversarial just to get attention. In order to have consensus each member must attempt to be in a state of neutrality and work together - like healthy parents raising a child - the project is the child and we are parents. doing your own shadow work so that you are a neutral vessel for the decision making process.